Having to say goodbye when you lose someone

The hardest part when someone you love dies is not having to say bye its learning to live without them. Learning to have to accept that they will never tell you again the words we love to hear... I love you or I am proud of you!   Learning to accept that no matter who comes in your life you will always be missing a piece of your heart especially if that person is a father or mother.   You feel empty inside and lost and seem never to really get over the lost of a loved ones, but you keep living because you have to! You know that's what they wanted and you know that you cannot disappoint them. People try to say things to make you feel better and it helps, but you know deep inside your life has changed.  That is what people seem not to understand.  A tragic event like death does change a person!! Especially, if its your mother or father or someone so close to you!!  You remember their birthday, you remember the day they died. Yet they say its been years of their passing you should be better, but when its your parent, your child trust me you do not get over it!  Sometimes people don't get it until they lose someone close to them.  I have to say: each year it does get better but you do not forget them ever and especially on the day or their birthday or the day they died.  The quote is strong and so true and dear to me.

I lost my daddy and I will never have him back! Sad but that's life.  So it's true what the quote states.    Your left empty and your heart is never the same, but the good things is those who are gone never do leave us... we keep them alive with each memory we have and share!  I smile when I think of my daddy especially today. 


Happy birthday daddy...I am thinking of you.  RIP

Your daughter!


I can definitely relate to this as I  lost my Father as well at a very young age. The part that is the most difficult is getting adjusted to life without that person being there. Although it does alter your character, Things will get easier. Time does heal all things. It will not change the void but it will soften it. Try to make the most of life and do what you can to honor that person the best way you can!