Sometimes we have to let go of someone because it is the best thing for us not because we want too. It's not easy it is actually hard. You can love someone and want them to be part of your life but you also know what you deserve and you deserve better. So you make a choice to let go and that choice hard but needed to be done!
Wanting and needing are two different things as well. You really want that person in your life but you do not need them especially if they're not being genuine to you. A relationship of any kind is not one sided ever. It natures, it protects, and it loves. Sometimes when love you have to let go because at the end you are only hurting yourself keeping someone you want knowing they will never change. Change is something someone choose to do and sometimes in relationships you always wonder why someone didn't change but changed for another. The answer is simple they made the choice at that time because they wanted too! So be happy you let go and always tell the person just because I let you go, doesn't mean I wanted too ....I had to for me!
Be free and love and always remember you deserve better! Just because you let go, does not mean you do not feel! Feelings are hard to control and you want to stay, but so is being in any relationship thats one sided. I feel that can kill your self-esteem, and emotionally and mentally drain you! No one needs that! So let go and be strong enough to say: I let you go, you left me no other option!
Love is one of the toughest things in life. It can be great, but you also cannot control who you fall in love with. Sometimes that person may not mean you well. To protect your self you may have to remove them from your life. That is not easy. What you can do is love people from a distance. You can love them but not to the point where it affects you negatively. It doesn't mean you want to be distant but you have to in order to live your own life in a peaceful manner. Always love yourself first. the rest will follow.
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